The key to any successful bridal shower is to match wedding shower themes to the personality and preferences of the bride-to-be with some consideration given to the guests who will attend. It is critical that whatever wedding shower theme you choose, any gifts or favors are tasteful and celebrate the shower itself as well as the good fortune of the featured guest. Choosing theme related guest favors will make the event that much more fun.
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Wedding shower themes should reflect the personality of the bride-to-be. Celebrate her life, her career, and her interests; make it about her. Always make sure that the groom is part of the evening, at least in spirit, but remember that the event is about her.
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Some ideas include a beach theme if she loves the ocean or surfing, an outdoor theme if she enjoys hiking or a crystal theme if her tastes include elegant wine glasses and other glassware. If she is a more formal type person, an elegant dinner party will do the trick and allow for “personal” moments as she opens guests’ gifts.Match the decorations to the theme and enjoy the accolades (it is about her, but praise is always welcomed.)
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Any gift or party favors should be elegant and tasteful to everyone who attends. This might mean toning down any “racy” gifts if family or friends with differing worldviews attend. Remember that the day is supposed to be about the bride-to-be not about the questionable taste of her friends.
Anther key piece of practical advice is to keep any themes to a reasonable period. A wedding shower can last for hours, but you do not want your guest or the bride-to-be thinking it was a few minutes past good judgment. Start it at a reasonable time for everyone and conclude it with the promise for those wishing to “let their hair down” of an “after-party” for anyone interested. This way, if you have elderly in attendance or attendees with young children, they can depart according to their schedules. Make sure the invitations reflect this sentiment, but also make sure that everyone is welcome to stay as long as they want or leave when they feel they should.
Finally, remember that this is supposed to be a day to celebrate the marriage. Keep conversation and any events lighthearted and try to avoid anything that might lead to the event becoming too serious. Striking a balance, as in life, is a good way to plan a wedding shower that will be remembered for years to come.